"An epitaph is a brief poem inscribed on a tombstone praising a deceased person, usually with rhyming lines."~Unknown
An Epitaph of a Socialite
Here lies my black dress
void of content, and laid to rest
No perfume sprays or wine stains for a while
Here lies my black dress in the "give-a-way" pile
Sound like you are giving up somethings. Or time has not permitted for you to step out. Either way this piece is good. Don't give it away because an occasion will come.