First Off,
ladies you must realize this:
while every man loves for his woman to take care of him
there is in fact a thin line between doing for him
all that you can
and letting him find his own way
and letting a man be a man
in other words ladies,
there are certain things you can do for him
and things you MUST let him do
knowing when to dicipher the two
is about knowing your man
there within lies the challenge for you
Secondly,
there are loyal men out there
while most of us men may be untrue
trust me ... if your man is faithful
attacking him with accusations of infidelity
will surely drive him away from you
Third,
I am aware that a lot of you ladies
believe in starting arguments because
you believe make up sex is great
well, news flash ladies:
most men do NOT like to argue
therefore, you starting one argument too many
only enhances the chances of you losing your mate
'cuz by the time you wish to make up
it may be too late
Fourth,
please listen closely
and have this very important piece of info
lodged inside your brain
UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES DO YOU
DISTURB YOUR MAN WHILE HE'S WATCHING THE GAME!
this will certainly create friction
so please if nothing else
unless the house is on fire (or dinner is ready lol)
let him have this time to himself
Finally,
this may be the easiest to do
but yet too important to ignore
give your man time to unwind
he may not be in the mood
to hear about your day the second he walks in the door
just give him a minute to smoke, drink,
put his feet up, take a dump
whatever he wants
relax recline
whatever gives him piece of mind...
then he will be happy to give you YOUR time
Well, you will indeed notice
that this list is not very long
that is simply because us men ask for very little
in order to keep a relationship going strong
If you only provide patience, loyalty and honesty
this will show us that you truly care
showing these traits will keep your man in your corner
for as long as you want him there*
Live, Love Life y'all
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