Blog Entry
As a young single woman, I sometimes sit back and wonder what in the hell is wrong with me that I dont have a man or see any potential as of right now. I see a lot of the men chasing theses hoochie-fied heifers(yes I said it) and it makes me discouraged. Me being the woman that I am, I would never settle for a thug, playa, pimp, wanna be or ramdon dude because they are the ones out there puttin thmeselves out there and need ladies to make their status. To me status is all about who you are as a person and a person that believes that he need women to validate him then he's stupid. But on the other hand I see these niggas chasing females for their looks and not who they are and some have sad self esteem issues over that shit. What am I to do? True enough I get attention from men but its not what I want...I am fully covered and a man will approach me with bull like this "Dayum girl where ya man....with all that ass and breasts dayum..well can I be him"? or "Ms Lady you are very beautiful...A woman with your shape should have a man....whats up with that"?.....and my least favorite "Damn Girl...you got ass". And this is the face they get Image and it get me cussed out or "chomped" off. I was raised to believe that a man may run around with all the chicken heads in his younger days but all that gets old soon....so who does he look to for in a woman. So I have heard not a lady whom stays in the club all week, that blows her money on clothes, shoes and hair to impress the other gender is lonely in the end. Im old fashioned to a point and I believe that there are nice men left out there but are overlooked for his material things. In talking to women, I have come to discover that we as women are superficial as hell along with men. A lot want Mr. Fine as Hell...Big Dick, Muscles, Good Hair, Str8 teeth, Money, Charm, and Lots of outer appearance things. Well me all I want in a man that I think is attractive to me, personality, a lil charm, sence of humor, a job, future aspirations, that can please me and stimulate my mind because that has to be stimulated b4 the body and a good spades player(LOL) cause I love to play some spades!!!